If you have been targeted by a narcissist it’s because your a special person. Most targets of narcs are empaths. An empath is that person who stands up against the bully for someone else. He or she may be introverted and have little to say until engaged. They are usually very sympathetic and can be easily stressed out.
He or she holds in their frustrations and refuses to “lose it” in public. We are patient and kind, lovers of nature, beauty, art, and truth. All of the things that the narcissist is not. They are usually not very confident in their looks and if the narc happens to be exceptionally handsome, pretty, or accomplished, he or she may feel lucky to have been chosen by them as a romantic interest.
They are peace makers by nature and are easily confused by the rage inside the narc. They will give in every time to keep the peace and will make endless excuses as to why the narc was rude, angry, etc. They will do things sexually that make he or she uncomfortable and tolerate other abuse that they feel they deserve.
He or she will accept the narcs behaviors as his or her fault. If cheated on they will blame themselves for not having a better body. If the narc gambles all their money away it’s because he or she isn’t smart enough to make more. Whatever the situation it’s the empaths fault. So you see, that’s one reason for us to have difficulty in leaving our narc. Be blessed. Love and light.